Jelena Dokic Opens Up About 'Complicated Grief' Following Father Damir's Passing
Former tennis star Jelena Dokic is bravely sharing her experience with grief following the recent loss of her father, Damir Dokic. In a deeply personal social media post shared late Wednesday night, Jelena announced her father’s passing on May 16th, and spoke candidly about the intense and often contradictory emotions she's navigating.
“It’s never easy losing a parent,” Dokic wrote, a sentiment that resonates with countless Australians who have experienced the profound pain of losing a loved one. However, Dokic’s journey is particularly complex, shaped by a tumultuous relationship with her father throughout her decorated tennis career.
Damir Dokic, a Croatian immigrant, famously coached Jelena during her rise to prominence in the world of tennis. While he played a significant role in her success, his behaviour – including sideline outbursts and clashes with officials – often overshadowed her achievements and sparked controversy. The intensity of their bond, both positive and negative, has left a lasting impact on Jelena, making her grieving process uniquely challenging.
“I’m experiencing conflicting and complex emotions and feelings,” Dokic explained in her post. “It’s a mix of sadness, relief, anger, guilt, and so much more. It’s a rollercoaster and it’s exhausting.” This honesty is a testament to Dokic’s willingness to be vulnerable and share her struggles with her followers, offering a powerful message of hope and understanding to others grappling with grief.
Experts in grief counselling often describe ‘complicated grief’ as a prolonged and intense grieving process, characterised by difficulty accepting the loss, intrusive thoughts, and a sense of detachment from life. Dokic's description aligns with these characteristics, highlighting the lasting impact of a complex family dynamic.
Dokic’s openness about her mental health journey has been widely praised in the past. She has previously spoken about battling depression and anxiety, and her willingness to share her experiences has helped to destigmatise mental health issues and encourage others to seek help. This latest revelation further demonstrates her commitment to authenticity and her desire to connect with others on a deeper level.
The outpouring of support and messages of condolence from fans, fellow athletes, and the wider Australian community has been overwhelming. Dokic’s story serves as a reminder of the importance of compassion and understanding, particularly during times of immense personal loss. As she continues to navigate this difficult period, Jelena Dokic’s strength and vulnerability inspire us all.
If you or someone you know is struggling with grief or mental health issues, please reach out for help. Lifeline Australia: 13 11 14. Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636.
